Facing Changes with Grit and Grace

I had to make an important decision recently, one that can potentially have a pretty big impact on my life. It is rather personal, so I will not divulge what it is, but do not worry, it is not something terrible.

You may be thinking why even bring it up if I am not going to share? While I won’t say what it is, I will discuss how difficult making life-changing decisions can be. First, you have to wrestle with it, especially if it involves making a choice. Then there are the voices that chime in, those that approve and those that think you are making a mistake.

I can tell you it is not easy. It takes a little self-analysis and reflection, and weighing the pros and cons. In my case, it involved accepting the truth that I cannot control everything. Despite my very best efforts, I had to admit I needed help, that no matter how hard I try, I will not make this happen on my own.

That is enough about me; now on to you and why I bring topic to the table.

There are a lot of scary things happening in the world right now. I know there are moments when I feel like running away from it all, but that doesn’t solve anything.

We have to face what it is we fear and then ask ourselves if we can change it, and if the answer is yes, how do we go about it. It all starts with admitting that a change is needed.

Many of you may be stuck in jobs that you hate but have a fear of unemployment and potential poverty. I hear you; I get it. Realizing that you might need to stick it out can be tough, but maybe now is the time to plan ahead.

Yes, our economy is volatile; there are ups and downs. That doesn’t mean you need to stagnate while you wait for better times. Is there a way of improving your employability? Perhaps earning a degree is not something you are up for or can afford right now but perhaps look into a certification that can help you beef up your resume. I know someone who took the time and put in the effort to get a notary license. That is something useful; believe me, I know. It took me two days to find a notary for some paperwork I needed to sign.

Another option is to think of some potential side-gigs. If you Google ideas for side hustles you will be surprised at the options. Look at me, I am an educator, a life coach, and a financial educator/insurance agent. Only one is a “job.” I am employed by the good city of New York, the other two are independent sources of income. By the way, if you are interested in being a financial educator, get in touch with me, I can help you do that. And yes, you can make a nice bundle of money down the road.

I have gone on a bit longer than expected, but I hope I have encouraged you to not despair. Look at things squarely, see if there is a way to change an unpleasant situation, then take the leap.

Until next time, stay resolved.